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How is it so easy to make your way to learn when your harboring so many negative authoritative emotions?

I really like your writings and it is true so true. Just wonder what the Disipline Enhancher is? If you could help along this journey's path of discovery to affirmation it would be a help for guidance. I am finding every piece I read from you is a new total discovery of the who is going on in here and what to do with that who. Keep up the great pace! Cassandra!

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Dear Stuart, I do not dispute your point of view in fact I myself try to follow as much as possible to lead a balance life in health, family, knowledge, friendships, spirit, nature, love etc. etc. However, one should not look down on the value of wealth….. may I share with you my personal experience? Some time ago I was with my nephew while in Spore, he told me that a friend of his is having a watch sale and these are branded watches he is talking about. He then asked me if I may be interested to consider going there and maybe buying one at a special discount. Without thinking much and at the same time knowing that I dont have that type of money, I told him that I am not a watch collecter. Do you know what his answer to me was? Don't bluff, if you don't have money say so…how did I feel then? How I wish I had that kind of money. So, money does play a big role in one's life….if one really does not have it…too bad…look around, who gets the most attention, the one with wealth or the one with none? Who do one choose to be god father or godmother…some one with money or some one with none….now I realise why no one ever ask to be their God father, Ha, Ha! Best regards and may success with you. Charles Chua 012 2820823 (Malaysia)

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Hey Charlie,
I totally sympathize with that. But, it also tells me that you might be seeking wealth for the wrong reasons. If you're using money for the benefit of others I think that's still fine. However, using this as a means to feel worthy or recognized is not really the best idea. I've never said that wealth wasn't good. I'm merely saying that balance is best. The problem is you won't know it until you get to the level of imbalance because balance presumes you know how to weigh. From your comment, I don't think you do. If your nephew is such a powerful influence in your life to make you feel bad, perhaps it's better to look at why your emotional state was negatively affected by a nephew. Imagine what it would be like when someone else even more important says the same thing to you. Buying a watch, a car, a new phone… these are awesome if you have the ability to manage and handle your finances and more importantly yourself. Wishing you had money and planning for it to happen are two different things altogether. Knowing WHY it's so important to you is another factor. You can go ahead and set your goals to earn more wealth. Under appropriate guidance and the right kind of skill, you will have more rather than complaining that you don't have it. However, you can go ahead and create wealth because of a negative or “away-from”, and you'll feel empty and frustrated once you get there. Don't take my word for it – go do it, then once you've experienced it, you'll know what I'm talking about. Let your wealth grow from an inner strength. If you don't have any strengths, well it's about time for you to develop them.

Hm I got it too, but I tested the second time around and it was fine.
In any case, you will receive the request for email confirmation, which does work fine. Hope to have you on board!

Hi Stuart,

I have just completed the LFC1 which was conducted by you last week.It was very refreshing…During your talk, you mentioned that you were able to read 4 books a day, that’s awesome!…how do you do it…Is there a technique/formulae to it.I would appreciate if you could share with me ur “secret”,cos i love reading books too,but i hv only 1 problem,i take weeks to COMPLETED 1 book just to comprehen it.

Thanks& Regards
Guilngan

Hi stuart, do you have any project’s for me to learn about NLP? Like school projects? I watch alot of video’s and read alot, but i don’t have the same feeling like when i was in school learning. I feel like i need a mentor, someone who can direct me. If you do have any free projects and want to help me out, i would appreciate it greatly.

Thanks