Personal Development: Organizing The Tangled Strings Of Emotion

For the longest time, I’d been studying human behavior and psychology because of the fascination of how we think. It’s dynamic, infinite and always changing. When someone is upset, it’s hard to tell what kind of reaction we will get, simply because people are different. They respond differently to the same stimuli. Yet in all the literature I’ve studied about emotions, psychological management, one thing is clear: human beings are like tangled yarn.

Research about the brain suggests that when we experience an onset of emotion such as sadness, the brain begins to process that as a pattern of behavior from a neurological standpoint. It becomes easier for your brain to pass information to the neurons that make you experience sadness.

Personal Development: Optimism and Flow

I’ve been fortunate to have started learning psychology during the times when it had been literally on a growth explosion. In 1995 during my first year of university, I was introduced to several key players who influenced my direction in learning about psychology. Among them, Martin Seligman and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, the two pillars of modern positive psychology.

Emotional Management: Close to 100,000 dead in 2007

There are 18,361 documented deaths due to homicide. There are 34,598 documented suicides annually in USA, and the eleventh most common cause of death in America (see report). Even hypertension has claimed 23,965 lives.

Something needs to be done to pass along the message that emotions don’t need to get the better of you. The other top 15 causes of death in the US are due to medical issues rather than emotional issues. If emotionally empowered, we might have been able to save 76,924 lives in 2007.

Personal Development: You And Your Partners

In a recent training on Creating Customer Intimacy, I tabled the idea that all the communication tactics in the world would never enhance your ability to have customer intimacy. Most of us live in a world where we think we have no customers. But as long as you have to work with at least one human being in the world, that person is considered a ‘customer’. It could be a team member, your family, a boss, a friend. At the end of it all, we have to be very clear that in order for customers to want us, we need to make a special change to the way we do things.

Personal Development: Empowerment For Inner Transformation

I just completed delivering a training program on transformational leadership, my usual training set and came away with a few reflections myself. The first question I had to ask myself was: will people be able to grasp the concept of “transformation”.

Personal Development: Taking Action

“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.” Sidney J. Harris

You could say that I enjoy my life. I love being busy, my moments alone, sharing time with my loved ones and enjoying being in those moments. There is however with a tinge of regret, that there is little that I can do for those who do not open themselves to being remolded.

Yes, I do re-programming stuff.

Mind stuff.

Get you to change and get your best life yada, yada.

Personal Development: What to do when you’re down

This is interesting. Not meant to be a prescriptive guide, just a list for you to consult when you need, which are life-giving ideas:

  1. relax alone with your favorite drink (wine, coffee, etc)
  2. go window shopping
  3. Listen to music you love
  4. Pray
  5. Do something nice for someone else
  6. Deliberately shift your attention to something else
  7. Take a walk in nature
  8. Exercise
  9. Talk to a coach
  10. Increase self awareness
  11. Journal
  12. Appreciate yourself
  13. Read out a list the things that you are already grateful for
  14. Sing

Handling Negative Emotions: Plutchik’s Wheel Of Emotions

I found this quite interesting and thought it might be a good idea to share it with you. This wheel of emotions shows the position you are at, and is a useful tool for emotional literacy.

If you’re not sure what that word means, perhaps you can check it up and find out what it means because you’ll have some days when you run out of words to express your emotions!

Personal Development: Negative Emotions

Many of us struggle with emotions and don’t admit it.

Right??

It’s in your head somewhere, but we don’t talk about it, we don’t think through it, and we certainly don’t process them in a way that makes us resourceful.

It seems that there’s lots of us who are unable to deal with emotions constructively in order to create the necessary changes in our lives. Negative emotions act as a weight that prevents us from moving forward a lot of the time. Sometimes, a negative emotion puts you into a point of making a decision, and depending on the way you make a choice, you can get ahead, or get into trouble.

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